Doostami

Take care of the people who matter.

A private weekly plan for the relationships that matter — friends, family, partner. One or two thoughtful actions a week, never a feed.

Invite-only beta. We'll email when a spot opens. No marketing, no spam.

What Doostami does

  • One or two reps a week

    Each week, Doostami suggests one or two concrete actions to care for the people you said matter to you — a friend to message, a partner to plan time with, a parent to call.

  • A private memory for the people you know

    Notes, important dates, what they care about. Stored under per-user encryption that only your device can unlock for sensitive content. We can't read it.

  • A bold, kind coach

    Honest about drift, never cruel. When the right answer is to step back and observe, the app says so. It will not generate guilt-trip messages or send anything on your behalf.

  • Finite by design

    No infinite feed, no streak-shaming, no leaderboards. The app's job is to give you one small action and get out of your way.

The privacy promise

  • We never send a message on your behalf.
  • We never share what you've written with anyone — including the people you write about.
  • We never show you a public profile, public ranking, or public feed.
  • We never show another person any private label, note, or score you set about them.

You can request a portable export, or wipe your account entirely. We delete your salt; even our backup ciphertext becomes unrecoverable.